Meeting By The Well

SINGLE'S ACADEMY

About This Programme

The mistake many single people make is that they try to build a relationship based on a foundation that is faulty or broken (Psalm 11:3), but relationships especially marriage only reveals how broken you really are and leads to even more brokenness. The second mistake many single people make is that they think they need someone else to fill or complete them, but another human being CANNOT fill the void already in your heart.

So, the purpose of this programme is to help you heal from past wounds and prepare you for your future relationship as a fully SINGLE, WHOLE person.

The Single’s Academy is an 8-Week Programme designed for anyone, from the ages of 15, male or female that is single (unmarried or not involved in a stable relationship) but has plans to be in a meaningful relationship e.g., marriage someday near or in the future.

It is part of our Soul Prosperity Academy targeted at people who are in pursuit of Soul Prosperity. Our wish is that they are able to prosper in all aspects of their lives based on how well their soul prospers (3 John 2).

Hence, the aim of this Singles’ Academy is to ensure that the souls of our singles who plan to be in a relationship is healthy and that they enter that relationship as a SINGLE, WHOLE PERSON.

Module One: Healing From Past Wounds and Mistakes.

1. Session One: Introductory Session

The aim of this session is to give you an overview of the Single’s Academy and what it entails.

2. Session Two: Healing From Childhood Wounds.

Using real life case studies, the aim of this session is to explore what your soul knows so well based on your childhood experiences (good or bad) that has helped shaped the perception you have of yourself.

3. Session Three: Healing From Past Relationships.

Using my story as backdrop, the aim of this session is to explore your past relationships (where applicable) to further establish what your soul knows so well based on those experiences that has helped shaped the perception you have of yourself.

4. Session Four: Letting Go, Healing and Next Steps .

The aim of this session is to bring you to a place of letting go of the past and to bring you to a place of healing and/or deliverance where applicable.

Module Two: Knowing who you are and who is right for you.

1. Session One: Who Am You?

The aim of this session is to help you get to the core of who you are without any ‘Conditions of Worth’ attached as that is key to being a single, whole person. The Key question this session would be asking is; ‘Who am you without a spouse, children, job, possessions, title etc.?’

2. Session Two: Who Is Right For You?

The husband or wife that you are with is not your husband or wife (John 4:18) is the mistake that this session is going to help you avoid by helping you discern the situation partner that the Lord has fashioned for you.

3. Session Three: How Do You Know You Ready?

The aim of this session is help you get to the point where you know you are ready for a relationship rather than awakening love before it’s time (Song of Solomon 8:4).

4. Session Four: Review and Next Steps.

The aim of this session is to review what you have gained from this academy and to dicuss next steps suitable for you.

Meet Your Programme Facilitator

Ruky Obahor

After years dating as far back as her teenage years of back to back relationships including 2 failed marriages, Ruky finally spent the last 10 years revisiting the foundation of her brokenness, healing and learning what it truly means to be a SINGLE, WHOLE person and she's now ready to share her knowledge and wisdom with you!

Ruky Obahor is the founder of the Meeting By the well Ministry, a ministry modelled after the Samaritan women who was set free after her conversation with Jesus Christ by the well.

Only one conversation that Jesus had with this woman had the power to break her out of a vicious cycle that she found herself in; one that saw her going from one husband to another, drinking from wells that didn't have the capacity to quench her thirst.

So, after years dating as far back as her teenage years of back to back relationships including 2 failed marriages, Ruky finally spent the last 10 years revisiting the foundation of her brokenness, healing and learning what it truly means to be a SINGLE, WHOLE person and she's now ready to share her knowledge and wisdom with you!

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